“FORGIVENESS BREAKS THE CHAIN OF CASUALTY BECAUSE HE WHO FORGIVES YOU-OUT OF LOVE-TAKES UPON HIMSELF THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. FORGIVENESS, THEREFORE, ALWAYS ENTAILS A SACRIFICE.” – Dag Hammarskjold
Picture a miserable, depressed, emotionally broken person hunched over a chemistry set. His eyes are narrow. His lips are pursed. His fingers are methodically adding just a pinch of this and a dash of that to the acid green fluid in the test tube before him. His thoughts are a hodgepodge of dated images, his heart a stale mosaic of hatred for a grievance long past. He is thinking of the one who hurt him and he is concocting a poison for the offender.
It sounds like an old movie, doesn’t it? However, here is where the scene changes direction. Envision the same pathetic scientist breathing a sigh of relief as he straightens up, marveling at the liquid vengeance he has created. Imagine that poor soul saying, “This will show him,” as he turns the test tube bottoms-up and drinks the poison himself.
That’s a surprising twist! Yet, there is a good chance you have done this very thing at one time or another.
Bitterness is a toxin that we prepare for someone else but then drink ourselves. It is a concentrated dose of emotional poison that we nurture and grow over time. When we react to someone’s wrongdoing by withdrawing and giving free reign to daydream of retribution and ill will, we are slowly poisoning our own hearts and mind. Do you have any signs of poison in your system? Give yourself a dose of the antidote— FORGIVENESS.